Judy Ford Evaluations

Parenting with Love & Laughter by Judy Ford
Analysis Summary

March 2002
1) On a scale of 1-6, how would rate tonight's presentation?
Response Total Percent
4
5
6 - Excellent
3
23
49
4
31
65

Comments on this question:

  • The children are grown, but I appreciate the ideas to share with others!
  • Seriously thinking about - how I try to parent.
  • Inserted 'grand' in front of parenting in question. Responded with -Seriously thinking about some ways to change.



2) What positive effect do you think tonight's presentation may have on your parenting?
Response Total Percent
None
Possibly Some
Seriously thinking about some ways to change
Definitely
Not a parent
Blank
0
6
22
43
1
3
0
8
29
57
1
4
     
3) If you could tell someone one thing you learned tonight, what would it be?
  • Create a more positive line of communication with kids.
  • Your job is to think your child is the cat's meow! That was the "nugget"!
  • Give your child "One Minute of Listening".
  • After you are mad, wait 20 minutes to act.
  • To wait longer before reacting to a situation.
  • Smile, laugh, have a light-hearted approach! Smile, breathe -- decide which action to take. Don't be so serious. Compassion. Be patient. Family is made up of little tiny moments.
  • How long a minute is.ˇ Listen to your children.
  • Listen to your kid with an open heart.
  • Wait 20 minutes when mad. Smile and breathe.
  • Light humored approach. Give at least 1 minute.
  • Smile.
  • Lighten up as a parent. Think of your parenting philosophy.
  • To breathe and think, remember always children are blessings from God.
  • Leave stress at door when I come home from work. Greet my kids with a smile.
  • To listen more and spend time to stop and listen.
  • That your philosophy is life changing that can be used as a family value and ethics for anyone.
  • 20 minutes holding yourself and waiting.
  • One minute quality time issue.
  • Listen to your children for 1 minute without interrupting.
  • Expression on your face (when you see your child) tells them how you feel about them.
  • Be more positive to my teenager. Listen without interrupting.
  • Face shows kids. Have fun. Breathe - 20 minutes.
  • The diaper bag idea!
  • I would share the bag of skills with all the goodies.
  • Parenting philosophy.
  • Listen - undivided attention for 1 minute per day.
  • All the little moments make a family.
  • Hang in there and love your child by showing.
  • Listen to your child. Importance of being present to your child.
  • To LISTEN to their children and to realize that we have the power to make a life (LIVES) more positive rather than negative.
  • How important humor is in parenting.
  • A parent has the power to change a life!
  • Have parenting philosophy?ˇ Lighten up - have more fun - don't take yourself so seriously!
  • Smile!
  • One minute of undivided attention.
  • All children deserve to be safe and satisfied. They are here to help us heal our hearts. The most important thing is being, not doing, with our children.
  • Parent philosophy.
  • About a bag of skills.
  • Be more present for kids.
  • Be light-hearted and SMILE.
  • Be a better listener. Don't ask why so often.
  • Laugh and take your time - especially okay to take 20 minutes to cool down.
  • Be lighthearted. Connect with children and spouse. Listen to them. Be joyful… Oops, that is four things.
  • The thought of making my child feel better about himself than I do of me.ˇ Breathe, listen, hold and share.
  • Laughter and waiting 20 minutes.
  • That appliances aren't important - the heart is!
  • Laughter.
  • Have a clear philosophy.
  • Make a parenting philosophy.
  • Be Present - not distracted. Smile, Breathe and enjoy your child. Laugh.
  • Bag of skills contents.
  • Lighten up!
  • Most American parents do not give child one minute of undivided attention daily.
  • Take a whole minute and listen.
  • That your kids are your life. Love them, teach them and learn from them.
  • Remember to take the time and bring laughter into the home.
  • Spend my more time just listening and being with my children.
  • Listen before you act.
  • Take 20 minutes before reacting. Listen to your child.
  • How you touch, feel, speak - sends your child a message.
  • Smile and listen to my children.
  • Spend at least one minute listening to your child each day.
  • One minute of daily eye contact. When I was dating my fiancé, I asked for 15 seconds of daily eye contact….that seemed like such a task. Occasionally over our 4 years of marriage we remember to keep that 15 second eye contact. Being a parent has changed me. I liked what you said tonight. I think I'll be DEMANDING of myself to give 1 minute of eye contact Daily to my spouse and our son. Thank you for reminding me! Glynis
  • To spend time with your child!!! They are gifts from God!!!
  • Laugh, smile, be light hearted. Be the one who loves your kid most in the world.
  • I am sick and tired of excuses the phony baloney crap - each and everyone is responsible and has a moral obligation.
 

 

     
4) What did you enjoy the most about tonight's presentation?
  • Approach was good.ˇ
  • The time together with other parents.ˇ
  • Everything. She (Judy) is wonderful.ˇ
  • The fun that Judy made everything easy to listen to what she said.
  • A feeling of camaraderie between the crowd/audience and Judy.
  • It made me laugh and feel good and want to get home and talk with my teenager.
  • Judy's presentation style and the intensity of her message and her anger about how children are devalued.
  • Judy's humor and wisdom.
  • Judy's humor and spirit.
  • The humor and ideas.
  • Judy's presentation.
  • Overall presentation and Judy's humor.
  • Listening.
  • Judy Ford.
  • Humor and respectability left me open to listen and learn.
  • That if everyone was as passionate about relationships, our world would be a better place.
  • Judy Ford.
  • Judy of course.
  • Her humor.
  • The sense that the speaker shared my firm commitment about the importance of parenting.
  • The speaker Judy Ford.
  • Good ideas to help us.
  • Stories.
  • Judy Ford's part and her cheerful speech.
  • Judy Ford.
  • The good common sense presented and direct talk to parents who need to grow up and make healthy changes.
  • The humor in parenting.
  • A good reminder of what's important.
  • The brownie.
  • Her unique style of relating to myself.
  • The dynamic of Judy, her spirit and joy in teaching others.
  • Judy's joyful approach to parenting issues.
  • Her sense of humor and passion for her subject.
  • Judy's down-to-earth approach, public involvement.ˇ
  • Her presentation format - good use of humor and pauses. Very personable.ˇ
  • Great job Judy!
  • Judy's sense of humor.
  • Keynote was exquisite!
  • Humor + kindness = wisdom.
  • Her great example of real-life situations to make her point. Very clear message to let parents know we need not be perfect, but we do need to use a bag of skills for our child's sake.
  • Honest - truthful - straight info with humor.
  • The presentee!
  • Keynote speaker.
  • Conversations that will come from this.
  • Judy was very entertaining and informative.
  • Learning through laughter.
  • Judy is friendly and forthright. I liked that. I felt/feel support for my parenting style.
  • How she spoke from the heart and made the whole audience think about their relationship with their own child(ren).
  • Laughter, life experiences.
  • Laughter in learning.
  • Positive energy and ideas!
  • Her stories.ˇ
  • Judy's gift of speaking: capturing an audience's attention. Her dedication to children.
  • Emphasis on humor.
  • Judy's personal experience stories as well as her humor.
  • The laughter and tools to bring home and implement!
  • Everything.ˇ
  • Judy - very validating.
  • The message of humor and love in negotiating health in the family.
  • Lots of good information.
  • The laughter.
  • It was fun, and Judy was entertaining.
  • Judy's candid and humorous approach.
  • Low-key presentation. Lots of take-home material.
  • Information on how to make your child feel loved and special. Wish this information was available when I was raising my children.
  • Laughter.
  • Judy's speech.
  • Judy's presentation is like she is talking to you one on one just about your child.
  • My sister brought me here as a 'girls night out' and hubby is babysitting.
  • Judy's stories of her children!!! They are going to be helpful with my 3 children!!!
  • Fun, great pace.
  • Audience interaction. Sometimes the speaker does just that - speaks, directs, authoritive. Judy allowed us to express ourselves without disrupting our neighbor to comment on a subject that we may feel passionate about.



5) How important do you feel it is for our community to sponsor speakers that talk about parenting?
Response Total Percent
Not very important
Sort of important
Important
Very important
Blank
1
0
5
63
6
1
0
7
84
8

Comments on this question:

  • Very important - But talking about it isn't enough.
  • Very important - sometimes it's the only thing that pulls the parents that really need it.
     
6) What topics/speakers would you like to see Prevention Works! address in the future? 
  • More on parenting - better advertising during the week of the event!ˇ
  • More of the same.
  • Any as inspirational as Judy.
  • More child/parent speakers.ˇ
  • ADD - Teachers and school.
  • Becoming a parent (as opposed to birthing a child). Healing your self in order to be present for a child.
  • The same type of stuff. Siblings and problems. Single parenting issues. Working mothers.
  • Dealing with older children.
  • Teen parenting.
  • What else can you do to enjoy quality time with children.
  • Anger.
  • Same - speakers for older children.
  • Teenagers.
  • How to help families in distress.
  • Positive discipline - John Gray would be great. Morality in parenting - Laura Schlesinger. Burton White - child development education.
  • The talk by Mike Doherty was boring and not related to parenting. I think he should be eliminated.
  • Make videos of this; and Stephen Covey on 7 Habits of Effective Families; also videos to put in public library or tapes; also on line on Internet answers to help. (Difficult to decipher).
  • Education in parenting for parents with YOUNG children.
  • Parenting.
  • How to resolve hurts of the past.
  • Behavior problems. FAS - ADHD.
  • Parenting with your teenagers and their changes. How to communicate with a teenager.
  • Discipline, drug use prevention. How to help your child succeed in school.
  • N/A
  • Terry Cross. NICWA story-telling.
  • Discipline -- Positive parenting. Homework - Love and logic. De--stresses. Strategies to avoid. Power struggles.
  • Child abuse/neglect prevention.
  • Can't think of anything - (got a sixth month old in my lap). But keep up the good work!
  • More parenting tips.
  • Instilling values and self worth in children.
  • Young teens who are now parents, and resources available for them to finish school/college that they may not know about.
  • Any would be appreciated. Thank you.
  • Effect of TV and media of developing brain.
  • More parenting, family.
  • Families.
  • More for parents of teens.
  • Help for ADHD kids.
  • I wish more people could have heard Judy Ford speak.
  • Parenting specially challenged (special need) kids and siblings. Marriage counsel type? Happy family?
  • Being a better parent to many children! Patience! Forgive and Forget!!!
  • Dealing with difficult children. Dealing with adopted children. Attachment Disorder/Bonding Issues.
  • Sexual Assault Prevention. Raise Awareness in Parents about signs of SA in Children. Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Assault. Neurological changes in Victims of Child Sexual Assault. Scholarships for low-income parents who can't attend - childcare - let's break down the barriers that keep parents in the overwhelmed position and help empower them with education!! Room for Improvement. Foundation for early learning: Monotone speaker, too many stats, very linear left brained info. Powerpoint pres. in handout to follow outline. Supportive and Excellent Info. Very boring - I felt we needed a cheerleader style or at least some passion and/or emotion. Presentation suggestion - Better lighting on Stage. Please hand out tablet with pens. 

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