| 1)
On a scale of 1-6, how would rate tonight's presentation? |
| Response |
Total |
Percent |
4
5
6 - Excellent
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3
23
49 |
4
31
65 |
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Comments on this
question:
- The children
are grown, but I appreciate the ideas to share with others!
- Seriously
thinking about - how I try to parent.
- Inserted
'grand' in front of parenting in question. Responded with
-Seriously thinking about some ways to change.
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| 2)
What positive effect do you think tonight's presentation may have on
your parenting? |
| Response |
Total |
Percent |
None
Possibly Some
Seriously thinking about some ways to change
Definitely
Not a parent
Blank |
0
6
22
43
1
3 |
0
8
29
57
1
4 |
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| 3)
If you could tell someone one thing you learned tonight, what would it
be? |
- Create a more
positive line of communication with kids.
- Your job is
to think your child is the cat's meow! That was the
"nugget"!
- Give your
child "One Minute of Listening".
- After you are
mad, wait 20 minutes to act.
- To wait
longer before reacting to a situation.
- Smile, laugh,
have a light-hearted approach! Smile, breathe -- decide which
action to take. Don't be so serious. Compassion. Be patient.
Family is made up of little tiny moments.
- How long a
minute is.ˇ Listen to your children.
- Listen to
your kid with an open heart.
- Wait 20
minutes when mad. Smile and breathe.
- Light humored
approach. Give at least 1 minute.
- Smile.
- Lighten up as
a parent. Think of your parenting philosophy.
- To breathe
and think, remember always children are blessings from God.
- Leave stress
at door when I come home from work. Greet my kids with a smile.
- To listen
more and spend time to stop and listen.
- That your
philosophy is life changing that can be used as a family value and
ethics for anyone.
- 20 minutes
holding yourself and waiting.
- One minute
quality time issue.
- Listen to
your children for 1 minute without interrupting.
- Expression on
your face (when you see your child) tells them how you feel about
them.
- Be more
positive to my teenager. Listen without interrupting.
- Face shows
kids. Have fun. Breathe - 20 minutes.
- The diaper
bag idea!
- I would share
the bag of skills with all the goodies.
- Parenting
philosophy.
- Listen -
undivided attention for 1 minute per day.
- All the
little moments make a family.
- Hang in there
and love your child by showing.
- Listen to
your child. Importance of being present to your child.
- To LISTEN to
their children and to realize that we have the power to make a
life (LIVES) more positive rather than negative.
- How important
humor is in parenting.
- A parent has
the power to change a life!
- Have
parenting philosophy?ˇ Lighten up - have more fun - don't take
yourself so seriously!
- Smile!
- One minute of
undivided attention.
- All children
deserve to be safe and satisfied. They are here to help us heal
our hearts. The most important thing is being, not doing, with our
children.
- Parent
philosophy.
- About a bag
of skills.
- Be more
present for kids.
- Be
light-hearted and SMILE.
- Be a better
listener. Don't ask why so often.
- Laugh and
take your time - especially okay to take 20 minutes to cool down.
- Be
lighthearted. Connect with children and spouse. Listen to them. Be
joyful… Oops, that is four things.
- The thought
of making my child feel better about himself than I do of me.ˇ
Breathe, listen, hold and share.
- Laughter and
waiting 20 minutes.
- That
appliances aren't important - the heart is!
- Laughter.
- Have a clear
philosophy.
- Make a
parenting philosophy.
- Be Present -
not distracted. Smile, Breathe and enjoy your child. Laugh.
- Bag of skills
contents.
- Lighten up!
- Most American
parents do not give child one minute of undivided attention daily.
- Take a whole
minute and listen.
- That your
kids are your life. Love them, teach them and learn from them.
- Remember to
take the time and bring laughter into the home.
- Spend my more
time just listening and being with my children.
- Listen before
you act.
- Take 20
minutes before reacting. Listen to your child.
- How you
touch, feel, speak - sends your child a message.
- Smile and
listen to my children.
- Spend at
least one minute listening to your child each day.
- One minute of
daily eye contact. When I was dating my fiancé, I asked for 15
seconds of daily eye contact….that seemed like such a task.
Occasionally over our 4 years of marriage we remember to keep that
15 second eye contact. Being a parent has changed me. I liked what
you said tonight. I think I'll be DEMANDING of myself to give 1
minute of eye contact Daily to my spouse and our son. Thank you
for reminding me! Glynis
- To spend time
with your child!!! They are gifts from God!!!
- Laugh, smile,
be light hearted. Be the one who loves your kid most in the world.
- I am sick and
tired of excuses the phony baloney crap - each and everyone is
responsible and has a moral obligation.
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| 4)
What did you enjoy the most about tonight's presentation? |
- Approach was
good.ˇ
- The time
together with other parents.ˇ
- Everything.
She (Judy) is wonderful.ˇ
- The fun that
Judy made everything easy to listen to what she said.
- A feeling of
camaraderie between the crowd/audience and Judy.
- It made me
laugh and feel good and want to get home and talk with my
teenager.
- Judy's
presentation style and the intensity of her message and her anger
about how children are devalued.
- Judy's humor
and wisdom.
- Judy's humor
and spirit.
- The humor and
ideas.
- Judy's
presentation.
- Overall
presentation and Judy's humor.
- Listening.
- Judy Ford.
- Humor and
respectability left me open to listen and learn.
- That if
everyone was as passionate about relationships, our world would be
a better place.
- Judy Ford.
- Judy of
course.
- Her humor.
- The sense
that the speaker shared my firm commitment about the importance of
parenting.
- The speaker
Judy Ford.
- Good ideas to
help us.
- Stories.
- Judy Ford's
part and her cheerful speech.
- Judy Ford.
- The good
common sense presented and direct talk to parents who need to grow
up and make healthy changes.
- The humor in
parenting.
- A good
reminder of what's important.
- The brownie.
- Her unique
style of relating to myself.
- The dynamic
of Judy, her spirit and joy in teaching others.
- Judy's joyful
approach to parenting issues.
- Her sense of
humor and passion for her subject.
- Judy's
down-to-earth approach, public involvement.ˇ
- Her
presentation format - good use of humor and pauses. Very
personable.ˇ
- Great job
Judy!
- Judy's sense
of humor.
- Keynote was
exquisite!
- Humor +
kindness = wisdom.
- Her great
example of real-life situations to make her point. Very clear
message to let parents know we need not be perfect, but we do need
to use a bag of skills for our child's sake.
- Honest -
truthful - straight info with humor.
- The presentee!
- Keynote
speaker.
- Conversations
that will come from this.
- Judy was very
entertaining and informative.
- Learning
through laughter.
- Judy is
friendly and forthright. I liked that. I felt/feel support for my
parenting style.
- How she spoke
from the heart and made the whole audience think about their
relationship with their own child(ren).
- Laughter,
life experiences.
- Laughter in
learning.
- Positive
energy and ideas!
- Her stories.ˇ
- Judy's gift
of speaking: capturing an audience's attention. Her dedication to
children.
- Emphasis on
humor.
- Judy's
personal experience stories as well as her humor.
- The laughter
and tools to bring home and implement!
- Everything.ˇ
- Judy - very
validating.
- The message
of humor and love in negotiating health in the family.
- Lots of good
information.
- The laughter.
- It was fun,
and Judy was entertaining.
- Judy's candid
and humorous approach.
- Low-key
presentation. Lots of take-home material.
- Information
on how to make your child feel loved and special. Wish this
information was available when I was raising my children.
- Laughter.
- Judy's
speech.
- Judy's
presentation is like she is talking to you one on one just about
your child.
- My sister
brought me here as a 'girls night out' and hubby is babysitting.
- Judy's
stories of her children!!! They are going to be helpful with my 3
children!!!
- Fun, great
pace.
- Audience
interaction. Sometimes the speaker does just that - speaks,
directs, authoritive. Judy allowed us to express ourselves without
disrupting our neighbor to comment on a subject that we may feel
passionate about.
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| 5)
How important do you feel it is for our community to sponsor speakers
that talk about parenting? |
| Response |
Total |
Percent |
Not
very important
Sort of important
Important
Very important
Blank |
1
0
5
63
6 |
1
0
7
84
8 |
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Comments on this
question:
- Very
important - But talking about it isn't enough.
- Very
important - sometimes it's the only thing that pulls the parents
that really need it.
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| 6)
What topics/speakers would you like to see Prevention Works! address
in the future? |
- More on
parenting - better advertising during the week of the event!ˇ
- More of the
same.
- Any as
inspirational as Judy.
- More
child/parent speakers.ˇ
- ADD -
Teachers and school.
- Becoming a
parent (as opposed to birthing a child). Healing your self in
order to be present for a child.
- The same type
of stuff. Siblings and problems. Single parenting issues. Working
mothers.
- Dealing with
older children.
- Teen
parenting.
- What else can
you do to enjoy quality time with children.
- Anger.
- Same -
speakers for older children.
- Teenagers.
- How to help
families in distress.
- Positive
discipline - John Gray would be great. Morality in parenting -
Laura Schlesinger. Burton White - child development education.
- The talk by
Mike Doherty was boring and not related to parenting. I think he
should be eliminated.
- Make videos
of this; and Stephen Covey on 7 Habits of Effective Families; also
videos to put in public library or tapes; also on line on Internet
answers to help. (Difficult to decipher).
- Education in
parenting for parents with YOUNG children.
- Parenting.
- How to
resolve hurts of the past.
- Behavior
problems. FAS - ADHD.
- Parenting
with your teenagers and their changes. How to communicate with a
teenager.
- Discipline,
drug use prevention. How to help your child succeed in school.
- N/A
- Terry Cross.
NICWA story-telling.
- Discipline --
Positive parenting. Homework - Love and logic. De--stresses.
Strategies to avoid. Power struggles.
- Child
abuse/neglect prevention.
- Can't think
of anything - (got a sixth month old in my lap). But keep up the
good work!
- More
parenting tips.
- Instilling
values and self worth in children.
- Young teens
who are now parents, and resources available for them to finish
school/college that they may not know about.
- Any would be
appreciated. Thank you.
- Effect of TV
and media of developing brain.
- More
parenting, family.
- Families.
- More for
parents of teens.
- Help for ADHD
kids.
- I wish more
people could have heard Judy Ford speak.
- Parenting
specially challenged (special need) kids and siblings. Marriage
counsel type? Happy family?
- Being a
better parent to many children! Patience! Forgive and Forget!!!
- Dealing with
difficult children. Dealing with adopted children. Attachment
Disorder/Bonding Issues.
- Sexual
Assault Prevention. Raise Awareness in Parents about signs of SA
in Children. Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Assault. Neurological
changes in Victims of Child Sexual Assault. Scholarships for
low-income parents who can't attend - childcare - let's break down
the barriers that keep parents in the overwhelmed position and
help empower them with education!! Room for Improvement.
Foundation for early learning: Monotone speaker, too many stats,
very linear left brained info. Powerpoint pres. in handout to
follow outline. Supportive and Excellent Info. Very boring - I
felt we needed a cheerleader style or at least some passion and/or
emotion. Presentation suggestion - Better lighting on Stage.
Please hand out tablet with pens.
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